November 5, 2009

Singing Hymns with Non-Readers

We start each school day with Bible time. We read a short Bible story. We usually read from the Golden Children's Bible because the pictures are awesome! We then review the AWANA verses that the boys are memorizing. The last thing we do is sing a song together. We are one of those "can't carry a tune in a bucket" type of families, but the boys seem to enjoy it anyway! Last year we learned one song a month (usually a hymn) and this year we are doing the same.

It's hard to learn the words to a new song if you can't even read! So this is what I do. I type out the words for those of us who can read and the add a few visual clues for those who cannot. Sometimes I do it with clipart, sometimes I just draw the little pictures myself. Even just one or two pictures per verse seem to help them remember the rest.

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This month we are learning Take My Life and Let it Be and I just drew the pictures myself. I'm no artist, that is for sure, but the boys can usually figure out what I'm trying to get across. Sometimes I have to explain a little, like the pitcher is for pour!

This year we are using Volume One of Hymns for a Kids Heart. I highly recommend it. Not only do you get the CD with both children and adults singing the hymns but a book that has stories about the men and women who wrote them.

There are always groans when we start a new song because it is a new challenge and they are sad to see the "old" song go. But we stick with it and by the end of the month the new song is an "old" favorite and we move to the next. They aren't gone forever though... sometimes we pop in the CD and sing the songs we learned previously just for fun!


November 4, 2009

Toys... and more toys!

After my post on bedrooms, several people asked me what we do about toys. Well, I have to say it's a lot easier to deal with the toy situation at our current house than it was at the old house. First of all, at our old house, our rooms were a lot smaller. The basement was cold and dark so the kids rarely played down there, and when they did I usually had to go down there with them (kind of defeated the purpose!). But we managed. We didn't have toys in the bedrooms and we didn't have a constant mess throughout the house either.

If you have a smaller space, or even if you don't, I highly recommend toy rotating. First, keep only the best, most played with toys. Get rid of the rest. Then box up half of them and put them away in a closet or the basement. After a month or so, unpack the stored away toys and pack away the first batch. You won't believe how exciting it is! Like Christmas all over again! The toy that was boring a month ago is now exciting again (for 3 minutes at least)!!

The toys that you keep out shouldn't be an overwhelming amount. Keep a toy box or bins or shelves somewhere in your main room to store the toys. I don't really like toy boxes because the kids tend to dump them out to find what they are looking for, but we do use one because some toys are just too big to fit anywhere else.

At our old house we kept all the toys in the living room but when they were cleaned up they were completely out of sight. Where, you ask, did we keep them in our small living room? Well, we got creative! Who needs a front hall closet anyway!?! We took the jackets and the bar out of the closet and added shelves instead. We always came in the back door and hung our coats there anyway. Here is what it looked like:
I even stored some of the boxed up toys in there. The toys I didn't want them to get into without supervision were at the top and the bottom held the "toy box" which at that time was a plastic tub that fit into the closet. (See it overflowing?!) The other plastic bins held, and still do hold, our toy sets: legos, Bob the Builder, Thomas the Train, cars, blocks, etc. All toys that can be, should be stored together. There will always be some odd and ends, but storing like toys together makes playing and cleaning up much easier.

We didn't get out all the legos and trains and cars and Bob toys all at once. Those are one-out-at-a-time type toys. They ask for them, we get them out, and when they're done they pick them up and put them away. The kids know what toys go in which bins and can clean up fairly easily on their own. It's nice, but not necessary, to label the bins with pictures of what's inside for the non-reading family members. Once everything was cleaned up we shut the doors and no toys could be seen. People who came to look at our house when it was for sale didn't even know we had kids until they got to the bedrooms! Ha! Then they saw we were stacking them like cordwood!

At the new house we have a much better set up. (Although we still don't use our front hall closet for coats. We liked the added storage so much we converted the front closet at this house into the homeschooling closet. Most of our school stuff is in there where it is nearby but out of sight when not in use!) We keep one small basket of "baby" toys in the living room and an end table with a door holds a few books, other than that there are no toys in the living room unless they are currently being played with.

The main toy zone is in our family room in the basement. We have bookshelves down there loaded with books. The toy box is out and has the current stash of toys stored inside. We do leave out the car tub since the boys play with cars EVERY day. The rest of the toys are kept in what we lovingly call the "game room". Off of the main family room is a small storage room. We had been storing toys in there but it wasn't that really organized. However, just this past weekend we put shelves in there. It is wonderful! Except for the baby toys, every single toy we own is in this room. Even the big ones like the play workbench and mini-trampoline.

We used all the same principles that we did at the old house...just the "closet" is a bit bigger! The new improved closet now also holds our many games (which were on shelves in the basement at the old house). I used Picnik to edit this photo to explain it a bit better. Click on the photos to enlarge:

These shelves are amazing. Amazing? Yep! There is nothing holding them in place but the weight of the stuff on the shelves. We installed the shelves on Fast Mount hooks. They are made for basements with cement walls that you wouldn't want to drill into. They went up fast; cutting the boards for the actual shelves took longer than installing the brackets. My husband was so skeptical they would work he called the company. After the lady stopped laughing, she assured him they would work just fine. Indeed they do!

The door has a knob with a keyed lock. If we let the boys loose in there we'd have a big mess on our hands! Plus, my husband is still a bit skeptical those shelves will really stay in place.

So what does the family room look like? Here are a few pictures for you:



This what it looked like after we picked up. A few hours before this there were toys all over the place. When the boys are playing it gets pretty messy, but when they are done cleaning up this is what it looks like. Some days I do just let them leave the mess out, but most days they clean up before going to bed.

Now, if you don't mind a mess...ignore this post. If it doesn't bother you to find plastic tomatoes in with the trains or Candyland cards in the Boggle box...ignore this post. If you have the neatest children on the planet who always keep their toys in order without assistance...you are sooooo lucky...ignore this post! But if you are sick of stepping on Legos as you walk through the room and sick of finding Polly Pocket pieces everywhere...try something different! Get rid of some toys and organize the rest! The old "less is more" saying really is true of toys!

To see my other organizing posts, click here!


November 3, 2009

Gratituesday: Books


I thought I would join in on Heavenly Homemaker's Gratituesday Challenge and share something I am grateful for today. I am thankful for books. I enjoy reading and if I didn't have other things to do would spend a good portion of the day doing just that! I love fiction (Christian mostly) and non-fiction. Cookbooks, organizing books, homemaking books, homeschooling books, craft books... you name it, I love them.

Just last night I finished The Shack by William Young. It's a tear jerker to be sure! While I take my nightly walk I listen to an audio book. I am almost done with A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court by Mark Twain. A great treat... why did I wait so long to give it a try?!

Of course, the one book that is always on my bedside table is my Bible. While I read plenty of books, the Bible is the one book that I will never "finish". And for that I am grateful! I always hate it when a good book ends!

Sometimes I just read for entertainment. Sometimes I read to learn something. Sometimes a book really changes the way I think about something. The following are some of the books I have read in the past few years that have really challenged me. I used to view the world quite a bit differently than I do now, thanks in part to these books.

  • Money: The Two-Income Trap: why middle-class mothers and fathers are going broke by Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi AND The Complete Tightwad Gazette by Amy Dacyczyn
  • Cleaning: Sink Reflections by Marla Cilley
  • Coupons: Greatest Secrets of the Coupon Mom by Stephanie Nelson
  • Feminism: The Way Home: Beyond Feminism, Back to Reality by Mary Pride
  • Contraception: A Full Quiver: Family Planning and the Lordship of Christ by Rick and Jan Hess
  • Children: Children: Blessing or Burden by Max Heine
  • Assisted Reproduction: Everything Conceivable: How Assisted Reproduction is Changing Our World by Liza Mundy
  • School: Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto
  • Our Government: Every Knee Shall Bow: The Truth and Tragedy of Ruby Ridge and the Randy Weaver Family by Jess Walter
  • Conservatism: Crunchy Cons: The New Conservative Counterculture and Its Return to Roots by Rod Dreher
  • Food: More-With-Less Cookbook by Doris Janzen Longacre
  • Islam: America Alone: The End of the World as We Know It by Mark Steyn
  • Self Sufficiency: The Encyclopedia of Country Living by Carla Emery
  • Just About Everything: The Bible
Want to read more Gratituesdays? Head over to Heavenly Homemakers.


November 2, 2009

Seasonal Cleaning: Kid Bedroom(s)

Here's where we part ways! If you "see a fork in the road, take it" kind of thing. I'm pretty sure what I do in kids bedrooms isn't what you will do or want to do in kid bedrooms, and you know what... that's okay! I'm not saying you have to do it my way. I'm just tossing out there what I do and if you can pick out an idea here and there that works for you, great!
My intentions aren't to get you to do things the way I do them. You should get your rooms organized and cleaned your way. If it truly doesn't bother you to have clutter or dust... carry on! BUT if you do want things neater or cleaner then do something about it! What I hear the most is that people do want to change; they do want a cleaner, more organized house... they just don't know where to start. Well, the first step to is to start doing things differently than you are now. That works with anything... saving money, getting healthy, or organizing your house!
Now, onto the kid's rooms... they are a bedroom so it's going to be very similar to the master bedroom except for the toys... ahh, the toys! So use the master bedroom checklist for the cleaning part, I'm not going to repost the whole thing again here. You should know the drill now anyway, clean the WHOLE room... top to bottom... every surface.
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Fall Cleaning: Kid's Bedroom(s)
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1. Window treatments 2. Bedding, flip mattress 3. Ceiling fan and light fixture 4. Ceilings and walls 5. Door and door frame 6. Blinds 7. Window and frame 8. Vacuum carpet including under furniture and along wall 9. Dust furniture front, back, and sides 10. Dust stuff on walls and shelves 11. Clean mirrors 12. Vents and light switches 13. Baseboards

14. Don't put back any items that aren't used or don't belong! Keep only a few items on top of dressers. This makes it much easy to clean on a regular basis. Group small items together in baskets or containers so you can pick them all up at once when it's time to dust. Empty each drawer and return only necessary items. Donate and toss appropriately.

16. Closet time: Take everything out of the closet. Wipe down shelves, dust the ceiling and walls. Vacuum. Have 3 boxes ready as you go through the closet: trash, give-away, and storage. Only keep the items that currently fit. Store clothes that are too big or too small somewhere else. At the very least get everything off the floor and vacuum, dust the closet corners, and look through the clothes to donate any unwanted items or remove items of the wrong size.



I like to hang all shirts. I find that folded clothes just don't stay tidy with little kids around. If we had a bit more closet space I would hang pants too but since I have four kids sharing one closet I don't have the space. We fold pants and keep them on shelves in the closet. Pajamas, underwear, and socks go in drawers. We have one five drawer dresser in the boys room and one three drawer plastic cart on wheels in their closet. Drawer 1 of the dresser is eldest son's underwear, drawer 2 is his jammies, drawer 3 is all older boys socks, drawer 4 is my twin's underwear, and drawer 5 is twin jammies. The three drawers in the closet are toddler undies and socks, jammies, and pants. All shoes are in a large laundry basket on the floor of the closet. I color code the clothes on hangers. Go ahead... call me crazy, but it's nice to know at a glance whose stuff is whose.
clothes on color coded hangers
(in the closet at our old house)

The baby's closet set up is a bit different. I don't really like it but it's what we've got. He's got two closets in his room. One with two rods and the other with just shelves. His clothes go on the bottom rod in the hanging closet (and in his drawers). I keep a few out of season shirts for each boy and spare hangers on the top rod. The shelves hold baby toys that are currently out of rotation, crib bedding, cloth diaper supplies, and a few odds 'n ends. The bottom of the closet holds a huge draw string bag that I made out of a sheet. This is where we keep all extra stuffed animals that aren't being cuddled with.
17. The easiest way to keeps kids rooms clean is to keep toys elsewhere. Don't store toys in the bedrooms at all. Bedrooms are for sleeping! I know this may sound radical to many of you, but toys are what usually create the messes in kid's rooms. If you must store toys in the kid's rooms, don't keep every toy they own in there, just keep a select few (we do have a small toy box in the baby's room with baby toys). Rotate them. Use containers to help keep things tidy. If you're overwhelmed reading this, think how your kids feel. Seriously, kids have too much stuff!

If you are honest with yourself, I am sure you will admit your child(ren) have way more than they use or play with on a regular basis. Christmas is coming and that means new toys are coming. The first step is to not get them so much in the first place. Unfortunately, we didn't learn that lesson until our oldest was almost grown but the younger boys are benefiting from our new ways.

This year consider cutting back on the "stuff" and putting the money you save in a savings account instead. Wouldn't it be wonderful to hand your child a bit of money when they buy their first car or set up their first apartment? They will appreciate that a lot more than another Barbie or Match Box car. For me, it's sad to see a child opening gift after gift on Christmas morning (or a birthday) as they just toss aside the new toy and move on to the next package. "No time to look at it kiddo, hurry up, there's more to open!" What are we teaching our children? Anyway, if you choose to get rid of some toys, consider donating them. This year, especially, it could really make a difference!

So, where are all the toys if they aren't in the kids rooms? I'll post more about my toy solutions in another post. Here's a quick peek:18. Nothing should be stored loose on the floor (books, videos, toys, clothes, etc.). Find a home for these items-use baskets, shelves, drawers, plastic storage containers, or even cardboard boxes.

19. Again, if you haven't vacuumed under the beds do that now and if you store stuff under the bed make sure it's stuff you really need and you have a way to get to it if you need it.

Want to keep it looking this great? Here's how in about 5 minutes per day:
  • Make the bed(s)*. EVERY day.
  • Put dirty clothes in the hamper, never leave them on the floor. Ever.
  • Put trash in the trash can.
  • Keep clean clothes hung or folded and put away.
  • Put stuff (especially toys) away. If it doesn't have a home... make one!
  • Dust and vacuum once a week.
  • Train your children in the above! It's their room, they can keep it clean!
*In the kids rooms we do bed making a little bit differently. We only use a bottom sheet and a blanket. The blanket gets folded and laid at the foot of the bed and the bed is made. Easy for little kids and less stress for mom.


November 1, 2009

Win a Step 2 Kitchen!

How would you like to win a $250 Step 2 LifeStyle Grand Walk-In Kitchen? We love all the Step 2 toys we have at our house. They are study and made to last. We get lots of comments on our Step 2 wagon... especially when it's loaded with little boys! I would love to win this kitchen... and if I blog about this I get an extra entry! So head over to Two of a Kind and enter to win!